I grew up as the oldest of six children in a tiny Midwest town near Kalamazoo, Michigan. In that little town I lived a fairly sheltered and protected childhood. It seemed that almost everyone in town was related somehow. And, everybody else knew everybody else. My mother was a combination seamstress, bread and cookie baker, Cub Scout den mother, nurse, and cheerleader who thought—until the day she died at age 93—that I could do no wrong.